4 Steps To Help A Lost Soul Cross Over!


1. Set boundaries and have an intention. 

While many of the Spirits who you will meet on your Spiritual Path are of the Light – such as fully crossed over deceased loved ones, Angels, and Spirit Guides, not all of those who exist as a Soul in the ‘psychic’ Astral realm are for the highest intention or are out for your highest and greatest good.  Just as humans have emotional and psychological baggage, so do those who have not yet crossed to the other side.  There is a difference.  Those who have ventured to the other side are in Spirit, those who have remained Earthbound are called ghosts.  Thus, whenever you venture to communicate with those in the Astral realm, it is highly important to set a boundary or intention of who you wish to connect with and be surrounded by.  It is crucial to create a sacred space before any healing having to do with human or ghostly clients.

An example intention is, “I am one with the Universe and all that is surrounded by Light & Love.  I wish to communicate with those of unconditional love and the highest vibrational light for my greatest and highest good.”

You may feel the need to say a prayer or a affirmation! When working with those in the Astral realm or those who are stuck Earthbound, I always call upon my protector Spirit Guides and Angels to assist and surround me with loving and protective energy. When I make this request, I close my eyes and set my intentional boundaries.

Setting Boundaries with Human and ghostly clients: (Example) “In the name of the Father/Mother Creator, I ask Archangel Michael to stand to my Right.  I ask Archangel Gabriel to stand to my Left.  I ask Archangel Uriel to stand before me.  I ask Archangel Raphael to stand behind me.  I call upon the Shekinah to surround me, mind, body, and Spirit. I call upon Yeshua to be within my heart.  I call upon Archangel Metatron, Archangel Azrael, Archangel Zadkiel, the Masters, my Guides, and my unseen Heavenly friends.  I invoke the Holy Spirit now!  And so it is! Amen.

‘The Light of Christ surrounds us, the Love of Christ enfolds us, the power of Christ protects us, the presence of Christ watches over us, where we are, Christ is present.’ (3xs)

2. Talk to the Earthbound Soul with compassion.

Next, take a moment to remember that the person you are speaking with was once a physical person. Someone who for some reason or another, hasn’t moved on. There is no need to yell, shout, or make anyone feel bad. Remember that they too, might feel very scared.  In other words, do remember to have compassion when communicating because these Souls have been lied to somewhere along there own journey by Religion, beliefs, or Astral beings, keeping them from going into the Light of Pure Consciousness.

Talk to the Soul you sense, see, or hear, with words, either internally (within your mind) or externally, with your mouth.  Tell them your name and what you are there to do.  This person will hear you either way, and whether or not you hear anything back with your physical ears, do know that they can understand you. You might not hear anything, but rather, you might intuitively pick up on their feelings, emotions, or thoughts. You may even sense temperature changes, electricity, or see colors.

Since there is no such thing as time and space in the Astral world and the Universe, Souls can be “trapped” for hundreds or even thousands of years without realizing that any time has actually passed since their own death. Helping the Soul realize that it’s not 1822 anymore, can assist them to move forward, shift, and continue on their Soul journey, for their greatest and Most Highest Good. Sometimes, all this person may need to hear is that it’s 2017 or the current year, and that their loved ones are waiting for them on the other side. You may also need to remind the person that it is safe for them to cross, and nothing bad will happen to them, that Creator is forgiving, compassionate, and loving.  This is the truth.

After telling the Soul what year it is, and letting them know their family is waiting for them on the other side, I often remind them that they are deceased and that it is time to cross over. Then, I visualize a temporary portal opening from the sky, inviting them to go into the Light.  Remember, only men and women with a physical body have ‘freewill.’ Ghosts, elementals, demons, etc. do not have the free will to choose anything. These beings use man/woman’s free will for their own insidious purpose, and tempt that persons Spirit away from Source. These Energetic Eartly beings use man’s free will to choose, to feed off their ‘life force’ or to possess a physical body, so this is why it is crucial to extract them from the Earth plane.  Anything in the Astral plane that causes a child of ‘Source’ to stray or to be possessed, will be extracted from the Earth by the Archangels with only two choices: either to come to into the light by themselves or by force.  However, this is completed only by forgiving the lost Soul, elemental, alien, demon, etc. and surrounding them with unconditional Love.

Remember too, that in many cases, these Souls may have actually never been “trapped” but needed to do more healing work before moving on into the next chapter of their existence.  It doesn’t matter why or what has been keeping them bound to the Earthly dimension.  They might have been waiting to find someone like you to help them cross when they felt ready – or to assist you on your own journey and path of Spiritual Growth! Helping a Soul transition can be a very powerful experience.

Since many Spirits describe crossing over as an individualized experience that is created and manifested from the Spirit and Soul, itself, it is important to be able to tailor to the needs of these Souls.  Some individuals have questions before they cross over, some have things they want to do first, or want to be assured about ~ such as knowing that their family will be alright or where their family even is.  Although not all people die the same, everyone crosses over exactly the same way, or sees exactly the same beings when they choose to cross – They may see their loved ones, Mother Mary, Yeshua, the Angels, Spirit Guides, or Masters. Our transition path is as original as our birth into this world.

3. Call in their loved ones and Angels on the other side to assist.

Before ‘sending a Soul into the Light’, call upon Yeshua, Mother Mary, Master Guides, Angels, and any loved ones on the other side that would like to come and offer a hand to this Soul in making their transition into Spirit.  Seeing and being greeted by these beings is usually so comforting, that the Soul is often more than willing to transition at that time. While this exchange is something that is possible to see and hear, it is also possible to witness and facilitate this interaction, simply by feeling the shift in energy. If you are not seeing or hearing anything, don’t be discouraged! Pay attention to anything you notice as you offer support.

If you are in need of extra support in assisting a Soul in crossing over, remember you have the support of Yeshua, Mother Mary, and the Angels! Archangel Azrael, whose name means, “whom God Helps,” is known as the Angel of Death, who assists with those who are dying and in death. Azrael can provide comfort to the dying and those who are grieving the loss of a loved one and help souls cross over to the other side. His energy is gently empowering, and tends to have a twinkling pale yellow light that he uses in his healing work. Remember to thank Archangel Azrael and the Divine for the assistance.

4. Close the Portal.

Once the Soul has been ‘released’ into the light, you can invite any other earthbound Souls who may be hanging around and interested in crossing over, to join this Soul into the light. Sometimes, others will see that the portal is open, and show up out of nowhere! They see the ‘porch lights on’ and feel safe and ready to cross.

Say the Last Rights for all Earth Bound Spirits crossing over into the Light:

“Oh Holy Host above, I call upon thee as a servant of Christ to sanctify our actions this day, in fulfillment of the will of God.  I call upon Archangel Raphael, Master of the Air to make open the way.  Let the fire of the Holy Spirit now descend that this being may be awakened to the world beyond!  May the Lord bless you and keep you.  May the Lord make His face shine upon you, and be gracious unto you.  May the Lord lift up His countenance upon you and give you peace.
And so it is! Amen.” 

Once you have completed the Last Rights, it is essential to consciously close the doorway (to the temporary portal), and you can do this by verbally saying something along the lines of, “This healing is now whole and complete, in all dimensions of time and space, I now close the Portal and ask Archangel Michael to remove any residual energy that was left behind, or visualizing the portal of light closing.  Setting the intention ‘seals’ the light portal and prevents any Souls who may have not yet fully crossed from coming back into the Earth plane.

While any well intentioned, conscious, and Spiritually awakened individual can attempt to “cross over Souls,” it is best done by a confident, Spiritual professional and it is not a game.  You will meet Souls who are bound by Earthly things, materialism, and you will meet Souls who are bound by demonic energies.  This is why it is crucial for you to invoke the Highest beings, especially Yeshua, Mother Mary, and Archangel Michael, in Spirit to assist you in any cases involving any Earthbound Souls, demons, or Astral beings.

‘I send you out as sheep amongst the wolves.  Go out and speak the gospel of Love, heal the sick and crippled, and save the possessed, all in my name.’ ~Y1eshua Christos~

May you be protected and may you blessed on your journey!

Valentina Marie: Owner of The Soul Intention, LLC, Ordained Minister, Dr. of Metaphysics, Dr. of Divinity, CMT, HHP, Reiki Master, Published Author of
The Truth Within: Book of Light & Love

28 thoughts on “4 Steps To Help A Lost Soul Cross Over!

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  2. This is exactly what I needed to read. I could use more assistance as I have had a few situations recently where I’ve become a vessel for earthbound spirits and had to help them cross over. This is new to me.

    • With compassion, practice, and patience, you will discover what works best for you. I always keep Christ Yeshua and Archangel Michael close, just in case I come across a ‘not so friendly’ earthbound entity. If you have questions, please feel free to ask me. ~Blessings~

    • I have had alot happen in the last week .between Indians in burial grounds and a lady that passed away in my home and me haveing a few things as well.it was overwhelming and scarey but in the end I have gained alot of wisdom and understanding and faith beyond .I pray you have strength and faith to overcome anything that comes your way.

  3. Dear enlighntend being,
    my soul is bound by some people using black magic, and i dont feel normal at all. i need help but cant find any help. my question is if i die how would my soul cross over as its bound by powerful spells. pls help me.

    • You are only bound if you believe the spell has power over you. If you do not yet believe in Jesus, please get acquainted with him. Also, St. Benedict will perform a healing and exorcism on you if you feel that you need Spiritual intervention. Please let me know if this works for you. ~Blessings~

  4. My aunt has a little baby girl and boy that keep playing in her house and my aunt is not scared but wants them to cross over. I am going over with holy oil and follow these directions. Any advice?

    • Call Mother Mary the Queen of the Angels and Archangel Michael and the League of Christed Angels all in the name of Jesus. The name Jesus means that which is safe or He who saves. Follow instructions on the blog…. remember to give the Soul the Last Rights and make sure you cleanse yourself with sage or palo santo after. ~Blessings~✨🙏🏽✨

  5. I seem to be attracting many spirits in need of crossing over. It has happened in the past, and, on the advice of a psychic I consulted about it, I cross the spirit over by smudging/saging the house along with much of the practice you indicate, although the additional prayers you use are great. However, it’s happening more and more now and I am not sure why and what to do about it. It seems like I clear one and the next week, I’ve got someone else hanging around. I’ve only felt like there was something negative once; it seemed like perhaps a negative spirit was attached to a positive one and trying to keep if from crossing.

    Half of me thinks I’m being crazy about this, but the other half knows that I seem to be a beacon for spirits at the moment. My husband and nanny have experienced things in the house when I know someone is there, and they will tell me about it without me having said anything, which makes me feel more validated that this is happening. That said, I usually don’t see the spirits but rather sense them by feeling extreme cold, dreaming about them, hearing strange noises in the house, or occasionally seeing a shadow go by the doorway.

    I don’t mind crossing people over, but I am curious as to why it might be happening more now? And is there a way to keep it a bit more at bay – I keep getting woken up repeatedly though the night, and with a toddler and a full-time job, it’s both tiring and hard to manage to take the time to cross people all the time in order to get a full night’s sleep (I don’t like having the baby in the house when I do a crossing, so I have to try to do it at a time when my husband is home from work and can take her out for 30 or so minutes, so it can be challenging to line that all up during the week).

    Any advice you have would be truly appreciated. My heart goes out to anyone who is stuck here and I am happy to help, but I’m feeling a bit overwhelmed and underprepared for the amount at the moment.

    Thank you so much –

    • As you cross stuck souls over, you become a magnet for them. You attract them because they see your Light! You can sage and set boundaries of what you will and will not allow in your home. State with conviction that only brings of Light and Love May be in your home in the name of Jesus Christ. Give hours that you will help Souls cross over just like we have hours we work and ask your guides to regulate the beings that want help crossing over. Ask for a sign from your guides that they understand. I hope this helps you find peace.

      It is a daunting task to be a Light worker! There are so many stuck Souls and not enough people like you and I.


      Valentina Marie

      • Hi Valentina Marie!
        Thank you so much for your kind response. That is such a relief to hear that it’s okay to set some boundaries here. It’s funny, because I just said to my husband, “It would be nice if I could just do weekend crossings.” He laughed, because it does sound a bit silly, but to hear you say that it’s appropriate to set those “crossing hours” is really helpful.
        Thank you so much for being a help to all of us trying to figure out how to best help here, with still having some sleep at night!
        Have a beautiful day –

  6. this was perfect i feel one soul looking after me that has not crossed and i feel like i am called to do it….so thank you and god bless you

  7. Hey it’s me Chris & I just want to thank first my younger sister Michele for helping me find this web site.Weve not seen each other for close to 20years but try to stay intouch,with her in Australia and me in Los Angeles can be difficult.We both share a gift of a psychic nature,but recently I have felt a (Vibration of a kind)concerning my father’s need to cross over or is trapped on the earthly plane somehow ? Possibly caused by our older sisters reluctance to dispose of my father’s ashes in the manor he had requested.And of course she’s not on speaking terms with us or what’s left of our mothers memory.Again thank you for this info.on crossing over am sure this will aid us on our journey to Dad movie on. Ps. Will try to keep you informed of our progress. Sincerely C.Peck

  8. I am not sure where to begin..my daughter almost died at four years old. She was very sick but she over came it but ever since she has been seeing and speaking to spirits and seeing out of this world energys. She becomes so extremley terrified at some of the things she sees. She is 16 years old now and tonight while walking our dogs she froze in the middle of the street and became so scared that her facial twitch came back she waa repeatedly blinking her eyes and told me she saw a old friend of mine that died almost four yeara ago. She said he wore white when he firsr passed away and she saw him in 2014 now tonight four years later he stood with white shoes black shirt black hat and was laughing loudlyas he opened his mouth he was internally full of bright orange flames . His eyes were full of flames continued to laugh a evil laugh then his entire head was in flames and he vanished. What am i supposed to do ?????

    • Do you guys believe in Jesus Christ or the Angels? Archangel Michael is the protector. Call upon both Jesus and Archangel Michael. She has to take back her power from the situations. Yes…. Ghosts are real and so are Spirits, however, they are both very different. Ghosts stay behind and do not enter the light. Spirits go into the light. Ghosts cause fear and anxiety and Spirits would never cause anyone to feel scared or uneasy. Have your daughter say this everyday, ‘I send out Christ before me this day to guide, to guard, to heal, to shield, and to prosper me.’ ‘The Light of Christ surrounds me, the love of Christ enfolds me, the power of Christ protects me, the presence of Christ watches over me. Where I Am, Christ is present. In Jesus’s name! Amen.

      She must learn not to be afraid of these energies and to realize that she has complete control over her domain.

      Nothing that is of Christ would cause your daughter to be scared, including old passed away friends.

      Please let me know if this helps you guys.


      Valentina Marie
      ORDM, CMT, Reiki Master

  9. Good job. You are very concise and 100% percent correct in your specifics on the entities to envoke. The IMPORTANCE in the order in which you MUST and the importance to FOLLOW that order is a little vague. You must follow certain proceedures and order to correctly and absolutely do what you intend. If you don’t know what you are doing seek further assistance because you can end up doing a lot more harm than good by opening rifts that can be bad bad things. Most ANYONE CAN do this IF they know WHO to ask (saying the names properly in angel speak or Hebrew is most effective.) Look up the pronunciations on how they sound if need be.) HOW to ask (for us Christians its by envoking the power and authority promised us by GOD’s Son YESHUA Messiah, JESUS Christ.) and in which ORDER to ask them …( first by coming to prayer with JESUS and thanking Him for being with you and guiding you, Then the FATHER GOD and then the specific angels you would like present at the time you come to help that spirit.) And you covered IMPORTANCE of the closing and ending the moment you help them cross over very well !!! Thank you for helping all of us who have questions and seek an answer. You ARE great in Yeshua’s eyes. Your continence is great.

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  11. I have never heard of “yeshua” is this GOD?

    My wife and I bought a house and there is a female there that tries to get my intention at night and has spoke a few times. We had a priest bless our house and she said she was stuck there. I would like to help her cross over. it would be wonderful to help her but also so I can sleep and not hear noises in my right ear all night

    We are catholic and our priest told us to tell her to cross over. She is attached to me somehow. any advice.??????

    Now that our house has been blessed I here the pssssst!!! in my ear all night long and occasionally “how are you?”
    She seemed angry at our priest when he was there and disappeared after she spoke to us

    any help or advice you can give would be wonderful

    • Is YESHUA God? ‘I and my Father are One’ (John 10:30)
      YESHUA is Jesus’s name interpreted from Hebrew and Aramaic, (Christ YESHUA’s. universal language.)
      Jesus is his Hellenized name. His true name is not Jesus, but YESHUA. ‘In my name, you are safe!’
      If one does not know HIS real name, that person becomes a mockery in the realm of unclean Spirits. Why are unclean Spirits stuck? They are attached to the realm of Purgatory, which consists of Pride, Envy, Gluttony, Lust, Anger, Greed, and/or Sloth. Is the entity attached to you or your home?

      Recommendation to make holy water with distilled water, rose oil, frankincense, spikenard and myrrh. Bless it with Christ’s prayer: (The Light of Christ surrounds me, the Love of Christ enfolds me, the presence of Christ protects me, the presence of Christ watches over me. Where I am, Christ is present. All in the name YESHUA, Blessed be) and sanctify yourself, all doors, windows, walls, and windows. Ask YESHUA to bless all items within your home.

      To help with the unclean entity in your home, please begin with saying out loud with conviction, the prayer to Mother Mary, (3xs Hail Mary), this will bring the ‘Queen of the Angels,’ into your home. Then say Archangel Michaels prayer, out loud with conviction (3xs), this will bring Archangel Michael and His posse, Gabriel, Uriel, Raphael, and many other Archangels into your home. Ask them to surround the unclean entity. They will begin the transition for the unclean spirit to help them heal and transcend from the realms of purgatory, from that which they are bound.

      Give the entity its last rights.

      Last Rights:

      Oh Holy Host above, I call upon thee as a servant of Christ to sanctify our actions this day, in fulfillment of the will of YESHUA.

      ‘Archangel Raphael, Master of the Air, make open the way. Let the fire of the Holy Spirit (Rooka d’ Koodsha) now descend that this being may be awakened to the world beyond!

      May Archangel Azrael guide you on your journey to the afterlife.

      May YESUA bless you and keep you. May YESHUA be gracious unto you. May YESHUA show his countenance upon you and bring you peace. Blessed Be. (Shlama Alakoom)
      (Numbers 6:24-26)

      Ask Archangel Michael to clear all lower vibrational energy out of your home, especially after the newly cleaned spirit has crossed over. ie). Archangel Michael, please clear, cancel, and delete all affects of fear and ‘Etheric Sludge, within my home. Only Christ dwells here, in the name of YESHUA.

      If there is no reprieve in your home after this, you may dealing with an inhuman Entity and you need an exorcism of your home.


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