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Cutting the psychic bond to a Narcissist!

narcissist-discard

The definition of a narcissist is a person with an over inflated ego who has admiration and love only for the self.  Narcissists are those who indulge in one or more of the following sins or ‘thought forms of man’ – pride, envy, gluttony, lust, anger, greed, or sloth.  (The ones in bold are the most common of narcissistic behaviors.)  Mostly, narcissists have an unreasonable or excessive admiration for their own physical appearance or abilities.  They think that they can do no wrong and when they do, they blame the situation, person, or thing for the wrongdoing and never take responsibility for their own actions or choices.  A narcissist will never say sorry for what they have done, and if they do, the apology is insincere and only a tactic to get someone to reconnect with them.

Narcissistic people usually develop ‘psychic chords’ to empathic people, because an empath is easy prey for a person who pretends to love and feel, when in fact, they only feed off the emotional hurts they cause an empathic person.  What is an empathic person?  An empath is a person with the spiritual ability to apprehend the mental or emotional state of another individual.  An empath will get so caught up in the reality of a narcissist, that they forget or lose the ability to comprehend what is right or wrong for their own energy field, becoming almost obsessed with the narcissist, because they want to help them.  There are so many narcissistic people in this world.  It is a pandemic, affecting the entire world.  There are so many narcissists connecting to the psychic realms of man, which are the states of pride, envy, gluttony, lust, anger, greed, or sloth, that they have disconnected their own essence from Universal source.  The psychic realm is the unhealthy realm of man/woman, and the spiritual realm is the healthy realms of the Universe.  Psychic is associated with Earth only and Spirituality is associated with the Universe on a much grander scale.  To stay living, a person must obtain and sustain their own Soul essence.  Narcissists are psychic vampires, causing emotional turmoil in their victim and feeding off the lower vibrational energies of the empath’s emitted emotions or thoughts because they do not have their available essence to sustain their own life.  However, once an empathic person becomes aware of the narcissistic unhealthy psychic bond, they will often try to bring it to light or leave the situation, only falling back into the trap of a narcissists charm and lies, several times before the person is too energetically drained to sustain the narcissists’ food sustenance.  Once the food source is almost diminished, the narcissist will make an abrupt exit, with no closure or reason for doing so, leaving the empath in a state of despair, depression, and depleted of their their life essence, usually with an illness or sickness that has been caused by the body going out of ease, Dis-ease.  The overall reason for this blog post is to help Empathic people become aware, get empowered, and leave the narcissist before it is too late.

The best way to get rid of a narcissistic person is to 1.) Become aware of the patterns of narcissism. 2.) Leave the situation or narcissist. 3.) Become empowered and revived with your own Soul essence, cutting all ties to the narcissist, psychic vampire!

1.) Narcissitic Patterns:

Narcissistic personality disorder is a mental disorder in which people have an inflated sense of their own importance, a deep need for admiration and a ‘lack of empathy‘ for others.  But behind this mask of ultra-confidence lies a fragile self-esteem that’s vulnerable to the slightest criticism.  When criticism arises or you try to bring up the narcissists lack of connection, they will get extremely upset, heated, and will shut you down, gas lighting you.  What is gas lighting?  Gas lighting is to manipulate (someone) by psychological means into questioning their self, their own sanity, and making you out to be the ‘bad guy.’  Once a demand is made, the narcissistic person will withdraw than attack in retaliation to the demand that you have created for the relationship.  A narcissist is vindictive, having or showing a strong or unreasoning desire for revenge, especially if a demand is made or if you try to set boundaries.  A narcissistic person is indifferent to emotional outcomes, meaning, they are not capable of realizing the emotional pain or anguish that they are causing others, because they lack empathy, the ability to understand and share the feelings of another.

Leaving the Narcissistic person

After realizing the patterns and behaviors of the narcissist, you will either try to help them, which most empaths do, or you will try to leave the situation.  The best way to leave the situation is to tell the narcissist that you need your space and incorporate ‘No Contact.’  No contact means, deleting their number, blocking their phone number, not responding to emails, answering the door, etc.  It is the only way to completely detach ‘psychically,’ from the narcissistic person.  They will not miss you, they will miss the emotional turmoil that they fed off of from you.  They will be angry that you have left, but they will find another victim, soon enough.  To completely detach psychically, ask Archangel Michael, your Spiritual Guides, or saying an Affirmation to cut all etheric ‘psychic’ chords binding you to the individual.  You will more than likely have to do this several times a day, as the person will be on your mind, trying to reconnect to your soul essence.

Example Affirmation: ‘I (First Name, Middle Name, Last Name) disconnect and cut all etheric chords and binds to (Narcissists Name) NOW, beyond space and time, from my past, present, and into my future, from this day forward, until the end of all time.  It is so Now!

Your Revival of Soul Essence

There are many ways for you to redirect your attention to something that is more healthy for your Soul.  The first thing you will have to do is ask your Angels, Guides, and say an Affirmation for the retrieval of your lost Soul parts.  Lost Soul parts, is the essence that the narcissistic person stole from you, leaving you feeling drained, unmotivated, or depressed.  You will have to do this many times before you feel back to your old, happy self.

Example Affirmation: I (First Name, Middle Name, Last Name) call back my Spiritual essence from all directions of time and space, from all people, places, and things, by force if necessary, until the end of all time.  It is so now!

Exercise, Yoga, and other physical activities help to revitalize your energy.  Physical activity, and meditation helps to shut down the ego, so that your Soul essence can be reintegrated into your being.  There are also other ways to reconnect with your Spiritual essence.  I like to ask my clients: What did you like to do when you were young?  What made you happy?  What are you passionate about?  The answers to these questions will be your saving grace.  If you can’t remember or you just don’t know, find a self empowerment group that you can join, or find a therapist that you trust, and delve deeper into your psyche to retrieve these memories to find your passion.

As time passes, it will get easier.  Time does heal in these sort of cases.  All you have to do is remain strong and dedicated to yourself.  Have faith!

‘Faith is the confirmation of things we do not see and the conviction of their reality, perceiving as real fact what is not revealed to the senses.’
~Jesus Calling, by Sarah Young~

 

Valentina Marie: Owner of The Soul Intention, LLC, Ordained Minister, Dr. of Metaphysics, Dr. of Divinity, CMT, HHP, Reiki Master, Published Author of
The Truth Within: Book of Light & Love

 

 

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Spiritual Hackers

Spiritual Hacker

In the media the word “hacker” is often used when someone breaks into computer systems to damage them, for the purpose of getting illegal access to resources, or to create viruses.

In terms of ‘hacking’ the computer world, we can apply the same principle to the ‘Spiritual world.’

What is a “Spiritual Hacker?”

The “Modus Operandi” is the same in context, but is based in a Spiritual connotation:

The Spiritual Hacker is a Psychic Vampire: ‘Psychic’ referring to the Psyche or Consciousness of man. Psychic is of the lower realms of man consciousness; That of the Purgatory realms of man (Pride (Vanity), Envy (Jealousy), Gluttony, Lust, Anger, Greed, and Sloth)! These include Shamans, Lightworkers, Yoga Instructors, Kundalini Yoga Instructors, Sound Healers, Touch Therapist, Massage Therapists, Theta Healers, Hypnotherapists, Energy Healers, etc., who do not do the work of the Holy Spirit! Be mindful of who you give your power away to. Those who do not know Jesus, do not know the Higher Self or Holy Spirit. Being in Christ is not necessarily of a religious connotation, but that of a vibration in Light and Love. Those who do not do the work of the Father (Heaven), do the work of the devil. This is the truth!

  • Wants to corrupt our “system,” with sin (lower vibes!) (refer to the 7 Deadly sins or vibrations of man)
  • Wants to break our communion with our Higher Self and Creator.
  • Get’s access to our essence by infiltrating our ‘psyche’ thoughts, emotions, and feelings.
  • Steals our dreams, ideas, and Faith.
  • Instill “Spiritual Viruses,” such as doubt, anger, and fear.
  • Can cause ‘Spiritual affliction,’ physical ailments that Physicians can not even diagnose.

Unfortunately, the Psychic realm is not the Spiritual realm and there are Psychics who feed off of the Spiritual.  Psychics are contracted.  The Spiritualists are expanded.  The Psychic is connected to vibrations lower than Courage 200Hz and Neutrality 250Hz.

Power vs Force

Spiritual Hackers do not have their own innate connection to Source or to their own Higher Self, because they are in a state of contraction.  They run their life on Ego alone and dismiss the Spiritual, connecting with entities, God’s, Ghosts, and demons, who give them psychic powers.  Psychics work with ‘Alter Egos,’ and not Spirit.  They envy the Spiritual and Successful and they cause harm by their own will, by their own jealousy.  They do not have the ability to connect with Life Force on their own, so they steal Life Force (essence) from others.  Spiritual Hackers are a dime dozen.  There are so many, it is unfathomable to even count.  There are so many people stealing essence from each other, there is a Spiritual drought.

Don’t allow Psychic’s to steal anything from you.  Your dreams are yours.  Your thoughts are yours.  Your essence is yours.  Spiritual Hackers do not have the right to infiltrate your being, whether you are conscious of it or not.  Consciously, we would not usually give something away to someone else that could possibly eventually kill us, if we are completely drained of our essence. We unfortunately, unconsciously give our essence to others, unknowingly.

How do people get Spiritually hacked?

1.) Intimidation

2.) Being A loof

3.) Victimization

4.) Doubting yourself

5.) Passive Aggression

6.) Pity/Sympathy

How do we stop Spiritual Hackers?

To stop a Spiritual Hacker, take back your personal Sovereignty and personal power with conviction.  Stay away from anyone who calls themselves a Psychic Medium. Surround your assailant/s with unconditional Love and forgiveness, whether you know who they are or not, and give them over to ‘Christ’ or ‘Pure’ Consciousness, never to return to you, beyond space and time. You can ask St. Benedict to intervene by sanctifying and exorcising you of these ‘Assholes,’ (pardon my French!)

The time is now to choose your side.

Each one of us resonates at a certain level or vibration.  Do you want to live a life lower than Neutrality or do you want to live a life in Love, Peace, and Enlightenment?  Please see diagram above for your reference.

Anyone who says that they are a Psychic or Healer, RUN! They work with something or a deity that is not of Christ. They know not what they do, causing havoc and harm to themselves and others through ignorance. You will know a true worker of God, when they tell you that they are a vessel for the Holy Spirit in Christ and that they are NOT a healer, but a facilitator of Light.

Please see blog post ‘Recognizing the ‘New Age’ Spiritual Fraud!

If you have any questions, please feel free to contact me.

Blessings to you in this journey called life!

Valentina Marie: Owner of The Soul Intention, LLC, Ordained Minister, Dr. of Metaphysics, Dr. of Divinity, CMT, HHP, Reiki Master, Published Author of
The Truth Within: Book of Light & Love